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Never respond to an angry person with a fiery comeback, even if he deserves it...Don't allow his anger to become your anger.
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bushido
warriorship
motivational
life-lessons
life
wisdom
inspirational
warrior-ethos
martial-arts
ataraxy
serenity
warriors
anger-management
anger
life-experience
inner-peace
self-control
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Bohdi Sanders |
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When you beat up someone physically, you get excercise and stress relief; when you assault him verbally on the Internet, you just harm yourself.
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civics
playerhaters
the-internet
anger-management
envy
internet
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb |
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Trying to make sense of other people's responses to us is a basic human activity. Accepting a mother's [or anyone's] anger by concluding that i is justified is a way of making sense of a difficult relationship. But this acceptance comes at a great cost, for it means that we see their cruelty as our shame.
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abusive-relationships
anger-management
emotional-abuse
physical-abuse
anger
shame
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Terri Apter |
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"As Freud noted: "A thing which has not been understood inevitably reappears; like an unlaid ghost, it cannot rest until the mystery has been resolved and the spell broken." . . . in ambivalent attachment, a mother vacillates inexplicably from being loving and tender to angry and threatening.. Faced with this unpredictable inconsistency, a child tries to appease the mother, anxious to control and monitor her shifting moods."
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abuse-recovery
anger-management
anger
attachment
mother
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Terri Apter |
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"Robert reflects: I go weak at the knees when she turns against me. I forget what it's like to feel courage. I try to remind myself that the worst of it will pass, that she won't be like that forever. She's mad now, but there will come a time when she's not mad. When I was growing up, I tried all sorts of things to get me through these times. I used to think "It won't be so bad if she doesn't hit me." And then I got to noticing that whether or not she hit me didn't matter. What I was afraid of was that she was going to explode and disappear."
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anger-management
physical-abuse
anger
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Terri Apter |