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1709b75 With this assertion, many mainstream Muslims wash their hands of the twin brutalities that shape the lives of perhaps a quarter of the women of Islam. Geraldine Brooks
993ee83 Book burnings. Always the forerunners. Heralds of the stake, the ovens, the mass graves. Geraldine Brooks
e36cb9b the truth from his ears, waxed strong. Geraldine Brooks
de9f59f So it is, out here on this island, where we dwell with our faces to the sea and our backs to the wilderness. Like Adam's family after the fall, we all have things to do. Geraldine Brooks
bec549d Perhaps the giver of the name had meant to trick Cheepi, the devil-god, into thinking him unloved and therefore leaving him alone. Geraldine Brooks
6fef99f Mental cruelty, nondisfiguring physical abuse or just plain unhappiness are rarely considered grounds on which a woman can seek divorce. Geraldine Brooks
d9c226f the man who has been wealthy is dunned more civilly than the fellow who has ever been poor. Geraldine Brooks
68ade79 Janis Karpinski and a few of the instructors fasted all day along with their troops. "I wanted to show solidarity with them, but I also wanted to know exactly what their physical condition was. If" -- Geraldine Brooks
220f4a1 They were all men, all middle-aged, all of a type: intelligent and elitist, yet deferential to the point of groveling before the king. The Geraldine Brooks
03b4a81 Politics needs a certain mental ability," explained Ahmad Saati, the university's spokesman. "Very few women have this kind of mind." I" Geraldine Brooks
6bbf876 Rehab had been cursed indeed. There was no way Mohamed could have raised the money to buy his secret stash of gold without scrimping on his family. I imagined the lies he'd told, as he denied her every little luxury. Four years of privation: the punishment for having only a daughter. Geraldine Brooks
9e138fe if her husband and children are suffering from her absence or her preoccupation with politics, then this is not Islam." It" Geraldine Brooks
e810678 It astonished me that Muslims, who put such store on emulation of their prophet, didn't wish to emulate him in something so fundamental as fathering daughters. Muhammad Geraldine Brooks
a02216a In either culture, women somehow managed to get the wrong end of the stick. Women bear the brunt of fending off social disorder in the Catholic Geraldine Brooks
e8822a5 One program that deplored the high incidence of wife beating drew hundreds of letters from angry men, who insisted that beating their wives was a God-given right. Geraldine Brooks
ae8b50e fundamentalists asked that a male answer questions directed to her, on the grounds that a woman's voice is too alluring to be heard in mixed company. Nadia Geraldine Brooks
c5e2d71 In fact, the majlis was an intensely feudal scene, with respectful subjects waiting humbly for a few seconds' opportunity to whisper in their prince's ear. Geraldine Brooks
cace699 A scandal had traditionally been an easy way to dispose of an inconvenient woman. Geraldine Brooks
f39b97b asked how, if he never had spoken before to women outside his family, he was able to serve as spiritual counselor to the village women. My friend looked at me strangely. "They put their problems to him through their husbands, of course," he said. "But what if their husband is their problem?" That possibility hadn't crossed either man's mind." Geraldine Brooks
eaaed42 The old man was appalled by the prospect of women driving. He clapped a bony hand to his heart and gazed heavenward: "I hope I never see it in my lifetime," he said." Geraldine Brooks
a99c957 To the gnarled old imam, sending his daughters out of the home--to walk in the streets, even if veiled, to sit among strangers, even if all girls--was wicked. His Geraldine Brooks
e3265e6 the dangerous female body that somehow, in Muslim society, had been made to carry the heavy burden of male honor. Geraldine Brooks
16bbaee The women have been told it's written in the Koran that they must do these things," she said. She could tell them it wasn't but, as an outsider and a woman, her word meant little against the word of the village sheik." Geraldine Brooks
b3e213a I've watched them. Watched them walking with this stupid smile on their faces into the biggest risk you can take in this life. Geraldine Brooks
db5173b I had begun this journey following him into the hidden corners of his world and here it ended with him crossed over into the brightest heights of mine. Geraldine Brooks
d5e548e they knew that what they hoped for from the operation was to safeguard their daughters' chastity, because upon that chastity depended the honor of the girls' fathers and brothers. Geraldine Brooks
f4fd6c6 In most Muslim countries women are the custodians of their male relatives' honor. If Geraldine Brooks
cdda3a5 Women, it says, "manufacture men and play a great role in guiding and educating the [new] generation. The" -- Geraldine Brooks
e26cfc4 women had been sent back home, to manufacture male babies and avoid waste in household expenditures. Geraldine Brooks
aa7c8c3 No, no," he said. "She can't raise it at all. She may only clap. Women must be very careful of their voices. If" Geraldine Brooks
74a4170 She must not speak in a delicate tone. This is from the Koran. Things begun with a few words will continue to other things. Geraldine Brooks
e7d82a8 trouble is, these people don't understand their own culture," said" Geraldine Brooks
6e96460 You can ask for things, but you can't just reach out and take things as if it's your right." A" Geraldine Brooks
8db79d7 This is Islamic dress--but not to them. According to them, the colors in the embroidery are haram. Where Geraldine Brooks
3826f94 Women without their own drivers could get around only at the whim of husbands and sons. Some Geraldine Brooks
b747afd For these women, Hamas's view of women was laughable. And since they couldn't hear the appeal of such views themselves, they were deaf to the appeal they held for their students. Geraldine Brooks
7c43be8 All the women who actually drove were mature professionals who had international drivers' licenses they'd acquired overseas. Many Geraldine Brooks
9bc4ebc They argued that women of the prophet's era had ridden camels, the main mode of transportation of their day. The Geraldine Brooks
766bda5 It was only then that I realized the distance between uncle and nephew wasn't nearly as great as I'd assumed. Geraldine Brooks
fd3dc5c From there, the future is a place that looks darker every day. Geraldine Brooks
ce039f2 Women of all ages are in-fantilized by the Saudi system. A woman, no matter how old, has to be able to show a signed permission from her husband, son or grandson before she is free to travel, even inside her own country. Geraldine Brooks
9ec1491 It's so easy for people like me"--a diplomat's son raised abroad and educated in America--"to be totally off base about this country and what it is ready to accept." Geraldine Brooks
4dfefd5 Such laws can be even more humiliating for older women. A widowed grandmother, for example, may have to rely on the permission of a grandson if he is her closest male relative. Geraldine Brooks
2764c89 She'd been married at twelve, before her menarche, and had been pregnant or lactating ever since. Geraldine Brooks