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| Link | Quote | Stars | Tags | Author |
| 14878af | Sebebi bir Homunculus olsa bile savasi yapan bizdik. | sorumluluk | Hiromu Arakawa | |
| 1cf3aaa | Teachings that do not speak of pain have no meaning because humankind cannot gain anything without first gaining something in return. | Hiromu Arakawa | ||
| f2aef94 | Zor zamanlarda kahraman denilen kisilere baris zamaninda sadece cok insan olduren katiller gozuyle bakilir. | katil | Hiromu Arakawa | |
| 2e19708 | Feel these muscles and understand how they boast the truth! | inspirational muscles truth | Hiromu Arakawa | |
| 68864ed | What do I most look forward to when creating manga? Why, doing the bonus pages, of course! I wish I could just do a whole 180 of nothing but bonus pages! | Hiromu Arakawa | ||
| 66e388f | So the years passed and everyone grew old and Nell's husband died and Hilda grew to be a large, angry sort of woman very high up in local government. When Nell was eighty-four Hilda retired and they went to live at a sea-side place where Hilda had had meaningful holidays during the menopause with a woman called Audrey, now dead. | Jane Gardam | ||
| d20aabe | His colleagues at the Bar called him Filth, but not out of irony. It was because he was considered to be the source of the old joke, Failed In London Try Hong Kong. It was said that he had fled the London Bar, very young, very poor, on a sudden whim just after the War, and had done magnificently well in Hong Kong from the start. Being a modest man, they said, he had called himself a parvenu, a fraud, a carefree spirit. Filth in fact was no .. | hong-kong | Jane Gardam | |
| e84ce92 | Amy planted a glass of brandy beside the bride's cornflakes. | Jane Gardam | ||
| 096eb9d | The landing stage stood on its high crooked stilts with only one person watching the boat disappear round the bend of the river--a girl of twelve called Ada, the wet-nurse's eldest child. As | Jane Gardam | ||
| 1915e8d | The Titans were gone. They had clashed their last. | Jane Gardam | ||
| 07132a4 | This is one possible answer to the deflationary sensation so perfectly captured in a question mark in Jane Gardam's novel of the dissolution of the Raj, Old Filth: 'When empires end, there's often a dazzling finale - then--?'31 Well, perhaps empires don't quite end when you think they do. Perhaps they have a final moment of zombie existence. This may be the last stage of imperialism - having appropriated everything else from its colonies, t.. | Fintan O'Toole | ||
| a184d2b | He has not the faintest idea that I am ugly and we are very happy together. | humor | Jane Gardam | |
| 2e469cc | I was seeing something I didn't understand and did not want to. No I wasn't. I was seeing something I had always understood and wanted to understand better. | growing-up humor | Jane Gardam | |
| 38e825e | Christianity is supposed to be all about love but it's utterly useless when you're love. | love religion | Jane Gardam | |
| ad6b9f1 | I was quite enchanted with myself. I had always thought I had very strong views on sexual morality. I found I had nothing of the kind. | coming-of-age sexuality | Jane Gardam | |
| e7540ae | If you do not know the truth, you cannot recognize the lie." - Joyce Meyer" | Jeanette Menter | ||
| 052b859 | Mary Kay Andrews, Sunset Beach (St. Martin's, 5/7) | Publishers Lunch | ||
| ec6cb3f | When you lurch from one thing to the next, constantly scheming, or reacting to incoming fire, the mind gets exhausted. You get sloppy and make bad decisions. | Dan Harris | ||
| 9b4044e | Acknowledging other people's basic humanity is a remarkably effective way of shooing away the swarm of self-referential thoughts that buzz like gnats around our heads. | Dan Harris | ||
| cd65fcf | May you be happy. May you be safe and protected from harm. May you be healthy and strong. May you live with ease. | Dan Harris | ||
| 58e7d71 | Mark also pointed out that mindfulness was a skill--one that would improve as I got more meditation hours under my belt. In that spirit, he said I should consider going on a retreat. | Dan Harris | ||
| 394c00e | Make the present moment your friend rather than your enemy. Because many people live habitually as if the present moment were an obstacle that they need to overcome in order to get to the next moment. And imagine living your whole life like that, where always this moment is never quite right, not good enough because you need to get to the next one. That is continuous stress." Okay, now this made a ton of sense to me." | Dan Harris | ||
| ccebccd | Make the present moment your friend rather than your enemy. Because many people live habitually as if the present moment were an obstacle that they need to overcome in order to get to the next moment. And imagine living your whole life like that, where always this moment is never quite right, not good enough because you need to get to the next one. That is continuous stress." Okay, now this made a ton of sense to me. For" | Dan Harris | ||
| ac74eb9 | In my view, the balance between stress and contentment was life's biggest riddle. On the one hand, I was utterly convinced that the continuation of any success I had achieved was contingent upon persistent hypervigilance. I figured this kind of behavior must be adaptive from an evolutionary standpoint--cavemen who worried about possible threats, real or imagined, probably survived longer. On the other hand, I was keenly aware that while thi.. | Dan Harris | ||
| 65c4441 | We now know that happiness, resilience, and compassion are skills, susceptible to training. You don't have to resign yourself to your current level of well-being, or wait for your life circumstances to change; you can take the reins yourself. | Dan Harris | ||
| 5f227aa | Mindfulness provides space between impulse and action, so you're not a slave to whatever neurotic obsession pops into your head. | Dan Harris | ||
| d0942fe | Forget mindfulness. You just have to be a gorgeous lazy slacker. | meditation mindfulness skeptics slacker | Dan Harris | |
| 9e672eb | Just as it's possible for humans to train to be fast or strong enough to compete in the Olympics, he argued we can practice to be the wisest or most compassionate version of ourselves. | Dan Harris | ||
| cd0c9df | Serendipitously, on the very night of my meeting with Ben, I had scheduled a dinner with Mark Epstein. In the taxi on my way downtown I called Bianca and told her how it'd gone. "He's right," she said. Which came as no surprise; Ben had basically affirmed her thesis. "This is good. Now you know what you need to do." Mark and I met to eat at a fussy Japanese restaurant called Brushstroke, where they only served a tasting menu and the waiters.. | Dan Harris | ||
| 0259257 | The price of security is insecurity. | Dan Harris | ||
| 6c2b8ef | There's no magic or mysticism required--it's just exercise. If you do the right amount of reps, certain things will happen, reliably and predictably. One of those things, according to the research, is that your brain will change in positive ways. You will get better at not being carried away by your passing emotional squalls; you will learn--maybe 10% of the time, maybe more--to respond, not react. | Dan Harris | ||
| 11d0bdb | How often are we waiting for the next pleasant hit of... whatever? The next meal or the next relationship or the next latte or the next vacation, I don't know. We just live in anticipation of the next enjoyable thing that we'll experience. | Dan Harris | ||
| 47bd7f4 | It's neuroscience that would say that our capacity to multitask is virtually nonexistent. Multitasking is a computer-derived term. We have one processor. We can't do it. | Dan Harris | ||
| 4d49474 | Then it clicked. Per usual, Mark's advice was sound, even if it took me a while to absorb it. Striving is fine, as long as it's tempered by the realization that, in an entropic universe, the final outcome is out of your control. If you don't waste your energy on variables you cannot influence, you can focus much more effectively on those you can. When you are wisely ambitious, you do everything you can to succeed, but you are not attached t.. | Dan Harris | ||
| c421b71 | patients saw their health improve if they did volunteer work. | Dan Harris | ||
| af2eb7e | Much of our inner dialogue is this constant reaction to experience by a selfish, childish protagonist. | Dan Harris | ||
| 1d31e0b | A big part of (Janice) Marturano's success in bringing mindfulness to this unlikely venue was that she talked about it not as a "spiritual" exercise but instead as something that made you a "better leader" and "more focused," and that enhanced your "creativity and innovation." She didn't even like the term "stress reduction." "For a lot of us," she said, "we think that having stress in our lives isn't a bad thing. It gives us an edge." | Dan Harris | ||
| 9952c0e | The habits of a lifetime reassert themselves with astonishing speed. | Dan Harris | ||
| 35d47f1 | Meditation suffers from a towering PR problem, largely because its most prominent proponents talk as if they have a perpetual pan flute accompaniment. If you can get past the cultural baggage, though, what you'll find is that meditation is simply | Dan Harris | ||
| 5e1d3c4 | They had a suggestion for me: I should go on a retreat. Recognizing the look of dread on my face, they acknowledged it could be a little tough, but assured me it would be worth it. They knew an amazing teacher, they said. His name: Joseph Goldstein. | Dan Harris | ||
| e9399cb | Meditation suffers from a towering PR problem, largely because its most prominent proponents talk as if they have a perpetual pan flute accompaniment. If | Dan Harris | ||
| 02ab80d | You can't control what comes up, only how you respond. You | Dan Harris | ||
| b772304 | She nailed the method for applying mindfulness in acute situations, albeit with a somewhat dopey acronym: RAIN. R: recognize A: allow I: investigate N: non-identification "Recognize" | Dan Harris | ||
| 776f0cb | With uncontrived sincerity he said, "I want to know you." That was one of the nicest things anyone had ever said to me." | Dan Harris |