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6d28629 Confront all the angry thoughts, feelings, the jealousies and condemnations, to find their cause, seek the root of such feelings and then operate on that. Need of security and reassurance can cause criminal acts. jealousy expression security emotions Anaïs Nin
133dcd5 I get furious at stairways, furious at doors, at walls, furious at everyday life which interferes with the continuity of ecstasy. Anaïs Nin
6bf02bf and then the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." ----Anais Nin" Alex Myles
8056ba5 I have decided that if analysis is a hothouse, a hastening of wisdom and growth, nevertheless the life experience must be actually lived out and through, completely, in spite of it; everything that is lived out in the imagination is poison. Anaïs Nin
615d7ef He has made me lucid and sane, and I am suffering cruelly from the loss of my imaginary life. Anaïs Nin
125c815 She is suspicious of words. She lives by her senses, by her intuition. We don't have a language for the senses. Feelings are images, sensations are like musical sounds. How are you going to tell about them? Anaïs Nin
d47bcd6 And please, whatever you do, don't tell us that what we do, either in love or lust, is unnatural. For one thing if what you mean by that is that animals don't do it, then you are quite simply in factual error. There are plenty of activities or qualities we could list that are most certainly unnatural if you are so mad as to think that humans are not part of nature, or so dull-witted as to believe that 'natural' means 'all natures but human .. Stephen Fry
f1837c0 Perhaps behind our occasional hostility toward the artist and writer there may be a slight tinge of jealousy. The man or woman who for the sake of family life, children, takes up work he does not like, disciplines himself, sacrifices some fantasy he had once, to travel or to paint, or even possibly to write, may feel toward the artist and writer a jealousy of his adventurous life. The artist and the writer have generally paid the full price.. Anaïs Nin
6811bbf Love never dies of a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source, it dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds, it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings, but never of natural death. --Anais Nin Sue Johnson
c372ea1 What if I turn my head? I can look in any direction by turning my wheelchair, and I choose to look back. Rodman to the contrary notwithstanding, that is the only direction we can learn from. learning past looking-back Wallace Stegner
4d1c33f That night she wrote a hasty sketch and showed it to Oliver. "It's all right," he said. "But I'd take out that stuff about Olympian mountains and the Stygian caverns of the mine. That's about used up, I should think." writing exaggeration metaphors mythology Wallace Stegner
8062a93 she said in response to Hernandez's soft greeting. They had a pact to speak only Spanish to each other, with the result that their conversation never got beyond hello and good-bye." language Wallace Stegner
71ee411 What the disorderly crave above everything is order, what the dislocated aspire to is location. Wallace Stegner
570dec5 Where do I belong in this country? Where is home? Wallace Stegner
442dcdb Grub Street turns out good things almost as often as Parnassus. For if a writer is hard up enough, if he's far down enough (down where I have been and am rising from, I am really saying), he can't afford self-doubt and he can't let other people's opinions, even a father's, keep him from writing. poverty writing motivation Wallace Stegner
903132d Do we all buzz or ring or light up when people press our vanity buttons, and only then? Can I think of anyone in my whole life whom I have liked without his first showing signs of liking me? Wallace Stegner
ab77c88 A poet is somebody who has written a poem. poet Wallace Stegner
efc7e7f Poetry ought to be a by-product of living, and you can't have a by-product unless you've got a product . Wallace Stegner
8dc2158 Perceptions trained in another climate and another landscape have had to be modified. That means we have had to learn to quit depending on perceptual habit. Our first and hardest adaptation was to learn all over again how to see. Our second was to learn to like the new forms and colors and light and scale when we had learned to see them. Our third was to develop new techniques, a new palette, to communicate them. And our fourth, unfortunate.. Wallace Stegner
093db34 The Cypress Hills massacre,...one of the final outrages of the literally lawless West...came...along that practical and symbolic divide, between the Canadian system of monopoly trading and the American system of competition, whiskey, bullets, exploitation, and extermination. Wallace Stegner
85cc30d Anyone who reads, even one from the remote Southwest at the far end of an attenuated tradition, is to some extent a citizen of the world, and I had been a hungry reader all my life. reading-motivation Wallace Stegner
cef7f0e I never learned to say shit before a lady. I don't believe in progress in quite the way you seem to. You believe in it more than Grandmother did. As for those purely cultural patterns of convention you think I ought to escape from, they happen to add up to civilization, and I'd rather be civilized than tribal or uncouth. progress tribalism grandparents convention culture Wallace Stegner
6e3a78b In general the assumption of all of us, child or adult, was that this was a new country and that a new country had no history. History was something that applied to other places. public-history memory Wallace Stegner
aab642c A western buckaroo, I share his scorn for people who go camping by the book, relying on the authority of some half-assed assistant scoutmaster whose total experience outdoors probably consists of two overnight hikes and a weekend in the Catskills. But we have just had that confrontation. The one who goes by Pritchard's book is Sid's wife, and I am wary. It is not my expedition. I am a guest here. Wallace Stegner
7327d03 The meeting of writer and reader is an intimate act, and it properly takes place in private. Wallace Stegner
cbb511b I honestly believe that the counsel I gave Curt was mainly sound, and I don't think too much of it was holier-than-thou. I tried to give him a code to live by. He wanted not one scrap of it, he didn't agree with a single value that I held. Wallace Stegner
7714f96 I have to blame myself for not finding any way of reaching him, but I can't feel that either Ruth or I had anything much to do with his corruption. His personal motives were freedom and pleasure, and he misread them both. Wallace Stegner
d145720 Under the rough and ridiculous circumstances of life in the Rocky Mountains there was something exciting and vital, full of rude poetry: the heartbeat of the West as it fought its way upward toward civilization. poetry roughness rocky-mountains heartbeat rough west civilization Wallace Stegner
df2eb3c He looks into his Dixie cup and looks back up as if surprised at what he found there. The future, maybe. Wallace Stegner
8fc7949 When we're young, we take so casually every sacrifice offered by the old. Wallace Stegner
6114d6a As moonlight unto sunlight is that desert sage to other greens. Wallace Stegner
8412dd2 There are further considerations I might raise. How do you make a book that anyone will read out of lives as quiet as these? What are the things that novelists seize upon and readers expect? Where is the high life, the kinky sex, the death wish? Where are the suburban infidelities, the promiscuities, the convulsive divorces, the alcohol, the drugs, the lost weekends? Where are the hatreds, the political ambitions, the lust for power? Where .. Wallace Stegner
3c2202e Good fortune, contentment, peace, happiness have never been able to deceive me for long. I expected the worst, and I was right. So much for the dream of man. Wallace Stegner
5db5f43 A wandering dog of a night wind came in off the sagebrush mesa carrying a bar of band music, and laid it on her doorstep like a bone. Wallace Stegner
f596647 Security is a big and serious deal, but it's also largely a solved problem. That's why the average person is quite willing to do their banking online and why nobody is afraid of entering their credit card number on Amazon. At 37signals, we've devised a simple security checklist all employees must follow: 1. All computers must use hard drive encryption, like the built-in FileVault feature in Apple's OS X operating system. This ensures that a.. Jason Fried
8225475 Delegators love to pull people into meetings, too. In fact, meetings are a delegator's best friend. That's where he gets to seem important. Meanwhile, everyone else who attends is pulled away from getting real work done. Jason Fried
af41de0 40-hour weeks are made of 8-hour days. And 8 hours is actually a long time. It takes about 8 hours to fly direct from Chicago to London. Ever been on a transatlantic flight like that? It's a long flight! You think it's almost over, but you check the time and there's still 3 hours left. Every day your workday is like flying from Chicago to London. But why does the flight feel longer than your time in the office? It's because the flight is un.. Jason Fried
946749a No time is no excuse Jason Fried
4d2028c How long someone's been doing it is overrated. What matters is how well they've been doing it. Jason Fried
c452b0e Don't make up problems you don't have yet. It's not a problem until it's a real problem. Most of the things you worry about never happen anyway. Jason Fried
57e562b Pass on hiring people you don't need, even if you think that person's a great catch. Jason Fried
bc3bade Limited resources force you to make do with what you've got. There's no room for waste. And that forces you to be creative. Jason Fried
b93076f Teach and you'll form a bond you just don't get from traditional marketing tactics. Buying people's attention with a magazine or online banner ad is one thing. Earning their loyalty by teaching them forms a whole different connection. They'll trust you more. They'll respect you more. Even if they don't use your product, they can still be your fans. Jason Fried
9aeb152 R2-D2 squawked derisively. "Hey, sacred island," Luke said. "Watch the language." Jason Fry