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cdc211c Schopenhauer credea ca un om cu putere sau virtute interioara nu va cere nimic de la ceilalti; un astfel de om isi este suficient. Irvin D. Yalom
f909aeb Controversy has always existed among psychiatrists and psychologists about the validity of personality diagnosis. Some believe in the merits of the enterprise and devote their careers to ever greater nosological precision. Others, and among them I include myself, marvel that anyone can take diagnosis seriously, that it can ever be considered more than a simple cluster of symptoms and behavioral traits. Nonetheless, we find ourselves under e.. Irvin D. Yalom
78d7f1f every act is not necessarily a message about the relationship. Irvin D. Yalom
9ec7e39 He was saying, fulfill yourself, realize your potential, live boldly and fully. Then, and only then, die without regret. Irvin D. Yalom
b694afe Sizi tutan bir sey var -bir korku, bir zaaf-, ofkenizi ifade etmenizi engelliyor. Bunun yerine yufka yurekliliginizden gurur duyuyorsunuz. Mecburen yaptiginiz seyleri erdeme donusturmeye calisiyorsunuz. Duygularinizi derinlere gomuyor ve sonra da hinc hissetmediginiz icin kendinizi azizlere benzetiyorsunuz. Anlayisla yaklasan doktor rolunu unutuyorsunuz; siz o rolun kendisi oluyorsunuz, kendinizi ofkelenemeyecek kadar iyi birisi gibi gorunu.. Irvin D. Yalom
1ca067f It is noteworthy and remarkable to see how man, besides his life in the concrete, always lives a second life in the abstract...(where) in the sphere of calm deliberation, what previously possessed him completely and moved him intensely appears to him cold, colorless, and distant: he is a mere spectator and observer. Irvin D. Yalom
e5810b2 Kurtulus garantileyen sey nedir? Insanin kendinden artik utanmiyor olmasi! Irvin D. Yalom
a9abe24 Hepimiz bazen birbirleriyle o kadar yakinlasiriz ki dostlugumuzu ya da kardesligimizi hicbir sey engellemiyormus gibi gorunur, bizi ayiran kucucuk bir kopru vardir, hepsi o kadar. Ama tam sen bu kopruye adim atacakken sana su soruyu sorsam: Bu kopruyu gecip bana gelir misin? Iste o anda artik bunu istemeyiverirsin; sorumu tekrarlasam oylece suskun kalirsin. O andan itibaren aramiza daglar ve azgin nehirler girer; bizi ayiran ve birbirimize .. Irvin D. Yalom
f7f5391 Insanin butun eylemleri kendisine yoneliktir, butun hizmetleri kendine hizmettir, butun sevgisi kendini sevmesindendir. Bu yorum sizi sasirtti mi? Belki de sevdiginiz insanlari dusunmektesininiz. Ama daha derinlere inin, sonunda sevdiginizin onlar olmadigini goreceksiniz: Siz bu sevginin icininizde yarattigi duygulari seviyorsunuz! Siz arzuyu seviyorsunuz, arzu edilen seyi degil. O halde bana neden hizmet etmek istediginizi bir daha sorabi.. Irvin D. Yalom
5c07907 Asik seven kisi degildir; aslinda o sevdigi kisinin mutlak sahibi olmayi amaclar. Butun istegi tum dunyayi o degerli malindan soyutlamaktir. Altinlari basinda nobet tutan ejderha kadar alcak ruhludur. Dunyayi falan sevmez, tersine tum diger canlilara karsi umursamazlik icindedir. Irvin D. Yalom
126d1d7 Sorun bakalim, kimler daha emniyette, kimler daha rahat, kimler sonsuza dek mutludur? Ben size yaniti soyleyeyim: Yalnizca sig zihinli olanlar, yani siradan insanlar ve cocuklar! Irvin D. Yalom
88e833f En cok ciy, en sessiz gecede duser. Irvin D. Yalom
87200e3 Rather, love is a way of being, a "giving to," not a "falling for"; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person. Though" Irvin D. Yalom
98721fe Predi vreme tolkova mnogo se biakhme sblizhili s tebe v zhivota, che nishcho ne mozheshe da razrushi priiatelstvoto i bratstvoto ni. Razdeliashe ni samo edin mal'k most. No t'kmo kogato ti se gotveshe da st'pish na nego, az zapitakh: ,,Iskash li da doidesh pri men na mosta?". I izvedn'zh veche ti ne iskashe da go preminesh; a kogato oshche vedn'zh te pomolikh, ti zam'lcha. Ottogava mezhdu nas se izprechikha planini i buini reki i vsichko on.. невъзможна-любов Irvin D. Yalom
b1515f2 As vezes, enxergo tao profundamente a vida que, de repente, olho ao redor e vejo que ninguem me acompanhou que meu unico companheiro e o tempo. irvin d. yalom
eccc41d tainata na dobriia zhivot e p'rvo da pozhelaesh tova, koeto e neobkhodimo, a sled tova da zaobichash tova, koeto si pozhelal. Irvin D. Yalom
ffc33d5 In the first, a tornado approached and I led her and others up a fire escape that ultimately dead-ended against a brick wall. In the second dream she and I were taking an examination and neither of us knew the answers. I welcomed these dreams because they informed the patient of my limits, my humanness, my having to grapple with the same fundamental problems of life that she did. Irvin D. Yalom
fae051f Ena ap' ta axiomata tes psukhotherapeias einai oti ta semantika sunaisthemata pou ekhei o enas gia ton allon metadidontai panta mesa apo kapoio kanali - an okhi me lektika, tote me me lektika semata. Apo tote pou xekinesa na didasko, elega panta stous phoitetes mou pos, an kati megalo mesa se mia skhese den suzetietai (eite apo ton therapeuomeno eite ap' ton therapeute), tote tipota allo semantiko den prokeitai na suzetethei. ειλικρίνεια μυστικό μυστικοπάθεια ψυχοθεραπεία Irvin D. Yalom
8a9d078 ne kadin ne de erkegin artik zayifliklariyla birbirlerine zulmedecekleri gunlerin gelecegini umuyorum. Irvin D. Yalom
7ee49a9 Bir insanin kendine karsi en buyuk odevi gercegi kesfetmektir. Irvin D. Yalom
3efe31d Dusunceler, duygularimizin golgesidir; ama her zaman daha karanlik, daha bos ve daha sade. Irvin D. Yalom
2faadd6 Jis keistas misrunas- protingas, bet aklas, nuosirdus, bet per daug suktas Irvin D. Yalom
13bb444 Myleti moteri- tai nekesti gyvenimo! Irvin D. Yalom
bb91f6f mn nyz b pyrwy z frwyd Glb rw'yprdz r khwtwlh y frbh w srHly tSwr my khnm khh dr dl jngl dndryt h w khswn h, zndgy khwby bry khwd dst w p khrdh st. rwzh my khwbd wly shb h, b wzwz w hmhmh y synps h sr z nzblshsh brmy drd, nwshbh y `sly sh r my nwshd w b tnbly, rshth y rw'yhy myzbnsh r drhm my tnd... bh qSh hy mDHkh pryn shbyh st. drst hmn nsn ngry ryj qrn nwzdhm. hmn khTy mtdwl frwyd dr `yny nmyndn skhtrhy ntz`y dhhn w mbdl skhtnshn bh jn w.. سپیده-حبیب Irvin D. Yalom
c64aa35 Derin bir adamin dosta ihtiyaci vardir, dostu yoksa bile hic olmazsa tanrilari vardir. Ama benim ne dostum ne de tanrilarim var. Ben de sizin gibi buyuk bir ozlem icindeyim; kusursuz dostluklar kurma ozlemi, inter pares dostluk, esitler arasinda dostluk. Bu sozcuklerin insanin solugunu kesen bir gucu var; hele benim gibi her zaman yalniz olan ve hep tam kendisine gore birine arayip da asla bulamayan biri icin inter pares gibi sozcukler buyu.. Irvin D. Yalom
cddeaea Ondan baska hicbir kadinin bana dokunmadigini biliyor musunuz? Hic sevilmedigimi, hic dokunulmadigimi? Tamamen gozlerden uzak bir yasam surmenin nasil bir sey oldugunu biliyor musunuz? Kimseyle tek kelime etmedigim gunler coktur. Irvin D. Yalom
ffc7b3f sifr ywb/ bb byst w hshtm, ywb gfth: hmh y nsnh! bdnyd khh tr s z khdwnd Hkhmt wq`y st w dwry nmwdn z shrrt, fhm Hqyqy st Irvin D. Yalom
459d246 Truth," Nietzsche continued, "is arrived at through disbelief and skepticism, not through a childlike wishing something were so! Your patient's wish to be in God's hands is not truth. It is simply a child's wish--and nothing more! It is a wish not to die, a wish for the eveastingly bloated nipple we have labeled 'God'! Evolutionary theory scientifically demonstrates God's redundancy--though Darwin himself had not the courage to follow his e.. philosophy skepticism truth Irvin D. Yalom
57f8cb3 Imajte na umu, upade Nice, da sam naslijedio izrazito senzibilan nervni sistem. To znam na osnovu duboke osjetljivosti na muziku i umjetnost. Kada sam prvi put cuo Karmen, sve nervne celije u mom mozgu odjednom su se zapalile: citav nervni sistem je plamtio. Iz istog razloga burno reagujem na svaku nijansu promjene vremena i vazdusnog pritiska. Irvin D. Yalom
8333a7c That just seems to be the way we're built. psychology self-acceptance Irvin D. Yalom
b1fd4fc pymbrn nsnhyy bwdnd khh z n`mt <> brkhwrdr bwdnd m nh Drwrt <> t`ql <> prwrsh yfth Irvin D. Yalom
a44cf22 pyshgwyy hy m`jzh wr chyzy bysh z tSwrhy khyly pymbrn nyst. hr chyzy `lty Tby`y drd. hr chh byshtr <> pyd khnym, chyzhy khmtry wjwd khwhnd dsht khh fqT khd z an agh bshd. hr chh <> byshtr bshd, rwyddh r byshtr bh khd nsbt my dhym. z khrdmndy khdddy khwd stfdh khnyd, nmy twn ayh hy khtb mqds r wjh bh wjh drkh khrd, anh st`rh hstnd Irvin D. Yalom
c71e9b6 Okhuromenos mesa se mia kalodoulemene pseudaisthese aperioristes dunames kai proodou, o kathenas apo mas prosupographei, toulakhiston os ten krise tes meses elikias, ten pepoithese pos e uparxe einai mia aionia anodike speira epiteugmaton, pou exartatai mono apo te boulese mas. ηλικία εξέλιξη κρίση πρόοδος ψευδαίσθηση Irvin D. Yalom
e1d912d Mia apo tis pio semantikes arkhes ton omades einai pos kathe omada einai enas kosmos se mikrographia - opoio periballon demiourgoume mesa sten omada antanakla ton tropou pou ekhoume epilexei na zoume. O kathenas mas demiourgei mesa sten omada to idio eidos koinonikou perigurou pou ekhoume sten pragmatike zoe mas. ομάδα-ψυχοθεραπείας ψυχοθεραπεία σχέσεις Irvin D. Yalom
db3d8a8 Kathe phora pou sphallo sto zetema tes autoapokalupses, einai giati moirazomai para polu liga, okhi para polla. Opote omos ekho moirastei polla dika mou pragmata, oi astheneis ekhoun panta ophelethei suneidetopoiontas pos ekho ki ego na palepso me t' anthropina problemata, opos ki ekeinoi. επικοινωνία ψυχοθεραπεία Irvin D. Yalom
2f15e75 tmm qwm sry'yl dr ngrsh mHtrmnh khwd bh twrt, dr hmn gnhy dkhyl bwdnd khh khd bh wsylh mwsy bh anh hshdr ddh bwd: bt brsty. dr hmh j yhwdyn nh bt hyy Tlyy blkhh bt hyy z <> r my prstydnd Irvin D. Yalom
e2897d1 prsydn bymry nyst T`t khwrkhwrnh, bdwn hych prsshy, bymry st Irvin D. Yalom
5e27fa9 arzw drm rwzy dny bdwn mdhhb bshd, dnyyy b mdhhby jhny khh dr an hmh frd khrdmndy khwd r bry tjrbh khd w tkhrym w bkhr bbrnd Irvin D. Yalom
d6c22df nsn azdy khh dr myn jhln zndgy my khnd t anj khh btwnd bh skhty my khwshd t z `nyt anh dwr bshd Irvin D. Yalom
25cb260 spynwz pyrw `qydh rstgry hmh nsnh bwd. w pysh byny khrd khh mdhhb hy ryj rw bh zwl khwhnd rft, chr khh shmr fzyndh y z nsnh, khwd r wqf jst w jwy khmltryn fhm z gyty my khnnd. spynwz fDl khrdgryn bwd. w jryny by pyn z rbTh `lt w m`lwl dr dny my dyd. z nZr w hych chyzy bh `nwn rdh y qdrt rdh wjwd ndrd. hych chyzy bwlhwsnh rkh nmy dhd. sbb hr rwyddy, rwyddi pyshyn st w m hr jh byshtr khwd r wqf yn <> khnym byshtr azd khwhym shd. .. Irvin D. Yalom
362aaa2 Sizin iyiliginiz, odeviniz, sadakatiniz; bunlar sizi hapseden duvarlar. Bu kucuk erdemler sizi yok edecekler. Kendi kotulugunuzu tanimak zorundasiniz. Kismen ozgur olunamaz: Ic guduleriniz, ozgurluk ozleminiz, odada kapali tutulan vahsi kopekleriniz; hepsi de ozgurlesmek icin feryat ediyorlar. Iyi dinleyin hala duyamiyor musunuz onlari? Irvin D. Yalom
43cd98b keep in mind that therapy is a deep and comprehensive exploration into the course and meaning of one's life; given the centrality of death in our existence, given that life and death are interdependent, how can we possibly ignore it? Irvin D. Yalom
d23ca9a All is ephemeral--both memory and the object of memory. The time is at hand when you will have forgotten everything; and the time is at hand when all will have forgotten you. Always reflect that soon you will be no one, and nowhere. Irvin D. Yalom
caec0e9 Stis meres mas ta perissotera ekpaideutika programmata (sukhna kato apo ten piese epitropon pistopoieses e asphalistikon etaireion) prospheroun ekpaideuse mono se brakheies <> psukhotherapeies, oi opoies sunistantai se exairetika sugkekrimenes tekhnikes pou apeuthunontai se exeidikeumenes diagnostikes kategories opos e katathlipse, e diatarakhe proslepses trophes, oi kriseis panikou, e dipolike diatarakhe, oi ethi.. ψυχολογία Irvin D. Yalom