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| deb0fae | What I hate is when consumers act as if farmers want these things, when it's consumers who tell farmers what to grow. They've wanted cheap food. We've grown it. If they want cage-free eggs, they have to pay a lot more money for them. Period. It's cheaper to produce an egg in a massive laying barn with caged hens. It's more efficient and that means it's more sustainable. Yes, I'm saying that factory farming can be more sustainable, though I .. | Jonathan Safran Foer | ||
| 31d4066 | When the fear of the Lord matures in you, Christ becomes irresistible. | Edward T. Welch | ||
| c489656 | This is good news: you don't have to know the exact cause of suffering in order to find hope and comfort. | Edward T. Welch | ||
| e16f9e0 | Baseball is...watching your husband sing "Happy Birthday" to 's mule. | Baseball | ||
| 633ab24 | If you build it, he will come. | Baseball | ||
| 649e80f | From the pen of ISABELLA STEWART GARDNER June 10, 1886 Paris, France My dearest Amelia, | Barbara A. Shapiro | ||
| 1d23fbb | We are both women who understand there's no point to the coulda, woulda, shouldas of life. | Lisa Gardner | ||
| a45ad55 | Freedom is the right to be free, and then the obligation to accept responsibility. If you don't understand that, then ugly stuff happens. And when you do understand that, you're prepared to meet the obligations straight-on. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 25e5d81 | Every story, the moment it's written down, will be reread," she said. "And every rereading will be a reinterpretation. In that sense, there is not an original story and there is not an original message." | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 4277a9d | American culture really has two souls. And it's not a question of whether the culture becomes secularized. The culture never becomes one thing or the other. The culture is always two. The culture is always William Bradford and Jonathan Edwards. The culture is always Benjamin Franklin and Thomas Edison. America was born just in time to have two mentalities. We're like Jacob and Esau struggling in the womb. Secular people want to believe that.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 0530a44 | Religion, Gardner continued, gives us eyes to see and ears to hear in ways that science simply cannot. "With our scientific eyes we can distinguish between true and false. With our religious eyes we can distinguish between right and wrong. When we see with our religious eyes, we live in a world of meaning." -- | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 9c32728 | The Exodus scenes were filmed in the sand dunes of Guadalupe, California, and DeMille transported hundreds of Orthodox Jews from New York, because he believed that "in appearance and in their deep feeling of the significance of the Exodus, they would give the best possible performance as the Children of Israel." But on their first day on set, the extras were forced to fast because the commissary served ham for dinner." | Bruce Feiler | ||
| cfdac4b | Good pitching always stops good hitting, and vice versa. | Baseball | ||
| 9ebc9f4 | Joseph predicted the Exodus, which meant that he knew his descendants would be enslaved by the pharaoh and then freed by God, was the most powerful expression of optimism--and faith--I had ever encountered. It was also, at that moment, an overpowering challenge that I sensed I could no longer continue to avoid. Would I place such credence in a generations-old promise I never actually heard? Could I meet this standard of commitment--to anyth.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| b5d5cb5 | The very roots of destruction are in the achievement of success itself. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| a66036d | The King James Bible, which most Pennsylvanians would have been using, describes the central moment as an act of economic liberation: "Ye shall hallow the fiftieth year, and proclaim liberty throughout all the land unto all the inhabitants thereof: it shall be a jubilee unto you; and ye shall return every man unto his possession, and ye shall return every man unto his family." But there's a problem with this translation. The Hebrew word der.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 2aa21c6 | study, and cleanse | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 5a0654e | The Starrs came up with a modified three questions for their family meeting. 1. What things went well in our family this week? 2. What things could we improve in our family? 3. What things will you commit to working on this week? | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 2fed8fb | and you will have many opportunities to take in human civilization at its highest levels of achievement. ..approach this experience as a small child might approach a mud puddle. You can lean over and look at yourself in the reflection, maybe stick a finger in it, an cause a little ripple. Or you can dive in, thrash around, and find out what it feels like, what it tastes like... I urge you to jump in. And I look forward to seeing you, back h.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 415f6cf | Their (Council of Dads) wisdom reads like a psalmbook of living: Approach the cow Pack your flip-flops Don't see the wall Tend your tadpoles Live the questions Harvest miracles Always learn to juggle on the side of a hill Take a walk with a turtle | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 2a9e6fd | After a few more weeks of equally uninspired gatherings, I called David. "You're focusing on the wrong thing," he said. "The purpose of the meeting is not to talk about each of you as individuals. It's to focus on how you're functioning as a family." He was right. When else did we discuss this most basic thing: how we were a family. We redesigned our questions: 1. What worked well in our family this week? 2. What went wrong in our family th.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 85708ef | By picking their own punishments, children become more internally driven to avoid them. By choosing their own rewards, children become more intrinsically motivated to achieve them. Let your kids take a greater role in raising themselves. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| a9dc109 | For centuries, European explorers had set out for new lands without using expressions like pharaoh and promised land, New Covenant and New Israel, Exodus and Moses. By choosing these evocative lyrics, the founders of America introduced the themes of oppression and redemption, anticipation and disenchantment, freedom and law, that would carry through four hundred years of American history. Because of them, the story of Moses became the story.. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 15317ab | So if the Civil War was really a war over the meaning of the Bible," I asked, "which side won?" "Neither. The events of the war showed that war is not skywriting from God about the virtue of one side or the other. Rather, the ambiguity of the war was evidence of the ambiguity of the American mission; maybe we're not the chosen people we thought we were. Remember that Lincoln, even in 1861, describes Americans as the 'almost-chosen people.' .. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 980928d | A meta-analysis of sixty-six studies completed in 1992 found that mothers who have more support from grandmothers have less stress and more well-adjusted children. The more involved the grandmothers are, the more involved dads are, too. | Bruce Feiler | ||
| 8c36cc6 | Baseball is like church. Many attend, but few understand. | Baseball | ||
| 2f25b64 | If you're offered a seat on a rocket ship, you don't ask what seat. You just get on." I" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 5f8e933 | Without fear, women can pursue professional success and personal fulfillment--and freely choose one, or the other, or both. | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| b07564d | If women want to succeed more at work and if men want to succeed more at home, these expectations have to be challenged. As Gloria Steinem once observed, "It's not about biology, but about consciousness." (p.108)" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 3315b9e | The most important thing in a relationship is the same thing in any relationship, whether it's your family or friends or husband and certainly at work, is just communication, | David Schardt | ||
| 47ab42d | no one gets promoted if they don't own their own success. | David Schardt | ||
| 0592fed | Now we know that women can do what men can do, but we don't know that men can do what women can do." (Gloria Steinem) (p.120)" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| ca8afb8 | More boys need that role model and that choices. As more women lean in to their careers, more men need to lean in to their families. We need to encourage men to be more ambitious in their homes. We need more men to sit at the table ... the kitchen table. (p.121) | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 94521a8 | One of my favorite posters at Facebook declares in big red letters, "Done is better than perfect." (p.126)" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 7944ba1 | Guilt management can be just as important as time management for mothers. (p.138) | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 92b99cd | If I had to embrace a definition of success, it would be that success is making the best choices we can ... and accepting them. (p.140) | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| d8ec78b | One stumbling block is that many people believe that the workplace is largely a meritocracy, which means we look at individuals, not groups, and determine that differences in outcomes must be based on merit, not gender. Men at the top are often unaware of the benefits they enjoy 'simply because they're men, and this can make them blind to the disadvantages associated with being a woman. Women lower down also believe that men at the top are .. | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 4448081 | Even today, gender-blind evaluations still result in better outcomes for women. Unfortunately, most jobs require face-to-face interviews. All of us, myself included, are biased, whether we admit it or not. And thinking that we are objective can actually make this even worse, creating what social scientists call a "bias blindspot." This blindspot causes people to be too confident about their own powers of objectivity so that they fail to cor.. | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 867a607 | The success and likability penalty is imposed by both men and women. Women perpetuate this bias as well. (...) Calling attention to this bias forces people to think about whether there is a real problem or a perception problem. The goal is to give women something men tend to receive automatically - the benefit of the doubt. (p.155) | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| ae0a642 | Framing the issue as "work-life balance" - as if the two were diametrically opposed - practically ensures work will lose out. Who would ever choose work over life? (p.24)" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 2ca6342 | be asking instead how I could become resilient. Resilience is the strength and speed of our response to adversity--and we can build it. It isn't about having a backbone. It's about strengthening the muscles around our backbone. | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 538ad80 | at the same time that women need to sit at the table and own their success, doing so causes them to be liked less. Most people, myself included, really want to be liked - and not just because it feels good. Being liked is also a key factor in both professional and personal success. A willingness to make an introduction or advocate for or promote someone depends upon having positive feelings about that person. (p.44) | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| 2419a9e | When negotiating, "Think personally, act communally." I have advised many women to preface negotiations by explaining that they know that women often get paid less than men so they are going to negotiate rather than accept the original offer. By doing so, women position themselves as connected to a group and not just out for themselves; in effect, they are negotiating for all women. (p.47)" | Sheryl Sandberg | ||
| b2cdff9 | just being nice is not a winning strategy. Nice sends a message that the woman is willing to sacrifice pay to be liked by others. This is why a woman needs to combine niceness with insistence, a style that Mary Sue Coleman, president of the University of Michigan, calls "relentlessly pleasant." (p.48)" | Sheryl Sandberg |