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ec83719 Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn't have the time to sit around and talk about you. What's important to me is not others' opinions of me, but what's important to me is my opinion of myself. defiant freedom inspirational inspirational-attitude inspirational-quotes inspiring life-and-living self-belief self-love self-worth society C. JoyBell C.
31f4cad When you're different, sometimes you don't see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn't. self-awareness self-confidence self-esteem self-love Jodi Picoult
dfa01cc The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I'm not going to let myself pull me down anymore. belief-in-self believe-in-yourself inspiration inspirational inspirational-attitude inspirational-life life living self-awareness self-belief self-knowledge self-love C. JoyBell C.
e57731b The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! When you wake up in the morning, you are with yourself, laying in bed at night you are with yourself, walking down the street in the sunlight you are with yourself.What kind of person do you want to walk down the street with? What kind of person do you want to wake up in the morning with? What kind of person do you want to see at the end of the day before you fall asleep? Because that person is yourself, and it's your responsibility to be that person you want to be with. I know I want to spend my life with a person who knows how to let things go, who's not full of hate, who's able to smile and be carefree. So that's who I have to be. growth inspirational inspirational-attitude inspirational-life inspirational-living inspirational-quotes inspiring learning life life-and-living living self-awareness self-belief self-love C. JoyBell C.
68bb987 Dare to love yoursel angel-poems classic-books classic-quotes creative-vision famous-quotes gold grace haiku haikus inspirational inspirational-quotes inspiring-authors inspiring-words joy love national-poetry-month personal-growth poem-in-your-pocket-day poetry positive-motivation psychotherapy rainbow rainbows self-esteem self-love self-motivation self-respect spirituality Author-Poet Aberjhani
9b1a3e9 How would your life be different if...You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day...You stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others choices inspirational life motivational opinions self-empowerment self-esteem self-love Steve Maraboli
21c973e Your time is way too valuable to be wasting on people that can't accept who you are. attitude-toward-life believe-in-yourself inspiration inspirational inspirational-quotes letting-go life life-lessons self-love values wasting-time Turcois Ominek
d874fc4 HO body-image eating-disorders inspirational perfection perfectionism self-love Ellen Hopkins
8136d91 A person learns how to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by someone else. self-love Haruki Murakami
b4e44d0 The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself. inspirational relationship self-love Steve Maraboli
7d2740f It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I'd been taught about myself, and half-believed, before I was able to walk on the earth as though I had a right to be here. self-love James Baldwin
5b24af7 A consequence of female self-love is that the woman grows convinced of social worth. Her love for her body will be unqualified, which is the basis of female identification. If a woman loves her own body, she doesn't grudge what other women do with theirs; if she loves femaleness, she champions its rights. It's true what they say about women: Women insatiable. We greedy. Our appetites do need to be controlled if things are to stay in place. If the world were ours too, if we believed we could get away with it, we ask for more love, more sex, more money, more commitment to children, more food, more care. These sexual, emotional, and physical demands begin to extend to social demands: payment for care of the elderly, parental leave, childcare, etc. The force of female desire would be so great that society would truly have to reckon with what women want, in bed and in the world. aging beauty body-image cosmetic-surgery cosmetics culture diet-industry double-standards eating-disorders equality fashion-industry feminism images magazines marketing mass-culture objectification plastic-surgery pornography self-esteem self-love sexual-violence sexuality society Naomi Wolf
8891e87 "One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others. There was a time when I felt lousy about my over-forty body, saw myself as too fat, too this, or too that. Yet I fantasized about finding a lover who would give me the gift of being loved as I am. It is silly, isn't it, that I would dream of someone else offering to me the acceptance and affirmation I was withholding from myself. This was a moment when the maxim "You can never love anybody if you are unable to love yourself" made clear sense. And I add, "Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do not give yourself." inspirational love self-acceptance self-love Bell Hooks
6e305ce You are beautiful. Know this. Anyone who tells you otherwise is simply lying. You are beautiful. beauty inspirational lies self-love Steve Maraboli
796d6a4 We are at our most powerful the moment we no longer need to be powerful. acceptance-of-oneself awareness fear inspiration inspirational love power self-acceptance self-awareness self-love surrender trust vulnerability Eric Micha'el Leventhal
59810fd People who love themselves come across as very loving, generous and kind; they express their self-confidence through humility, forgiveness and inclusiveness. generosity inspirational kindness self-love Sanaya Roman
50c72ab In your own life it's important to know how spectacular you are. inspirational self-empowerment self-esteem self-love Steve Maraboli
b4e0ff3 The one person who will never leave us, whom we will never lose, is ourself. Learning to love our female selves is where our search for love must begin. love self-love women-s-strength Bell Hooks
e99c186 She was perhaps too young to realize that what she assumed was her love for [him] was actually a tentative, timorous, acceptance of herself. love self-acceptance self-love the-god-of-small-things Arundhati Roy
ac09932 The groove is so mysterious. We're born with it and we lose it and the world seems to split apart before our eyes into stupid and cool. When we get it back, the world unifies around us, and both stupid and cool fall away. I am grateful to those who are keepers of the groove. The babies and the grandmas who hang on to it and help us remember when we forget that any kind of dancing is better than no dancing at all. babies confidence cool dance dancing demons grandma groove growing-up lynda-barry one-hundred-demons self-love stupid Lynda Barry
29af0de Women are often belittled for trying to resurrect these men and bring them back to life and to love. They are in a world that would be even more alienated and violent if caring women did not do the work of teaching men who have lost touch with themselves how to love again. This labor of love is futile only when the men in question refuse to awaken, refuse growth. At this point it is a gesture of self-love for women to break their commitment and move on. futility growth labor life love resurrection self-love violence Bell Hooks
eb82e10 As more people have found the courage to break through shame and speak about woundedness in their lives, we are now subjected to a mean-spirited cultural response, where all talk of woundedness is mocked. The belittling of anyone's attempt to name a context within which they were wounded, were made a victim, is a form of shaming. It is psychological terrorism. Shaming breaks our hearts. All individuals who are genuinely seeking well-being within a healing context realize that it is important to that process not to make being a victim a stance of pride or a location from which to simply blame others. We need to speak our shame and our pain courageously in order to recover. Addressing woundedness is not about blaming others; however, it does allow individuals who have been, and are, hurt to insist on accountability and responsibility both from themselves and from those who were the agents of their suffering as well as those who bore witness. Constructive confrontation aids our healing. confrontation discussion healing-shame honesty hurting hurting-heart love pain responsibility self-love wounded woundedness wounds wounds-to-the-heart bell hooks
048f24e Because we were treated neglectfully and abusively in our young years--when we most needed self-love to be mirrored--it was difficult to hold onto...We take up the challenge of learning to love ourselves, through our highs & our lows, when we are finding acceptance from others and when we are being closed out and rejected. child-abuse child-abuse-survivors child-neglect emotional-abuse emotional-neglect healing healing-from-abuse healing-insights love-yourself neglect recovery-from-abuse self-acceptance self-love self-love-quotes Maureen Brady
0d2ece0 Many things in this period have been hard to bear, or hard to take seriously. My own profession went into a protracted swoon during the Reagan-Bush-Thatcher decade, and shows scant sign of recovering a critical faculty--or indeed any faculty whatever, unless it is one of induced enthusiasm for a plausible consensus President. (We shall see whether it counts as progress for the same parrots to learn a new word.) And my own cohort, the left, shared in the general dispiriting move towards apolitical, atonal postmodernism. Regarding something magnificent, like the long-overdue and still endangered South African revolution (a jagged fit in the supposedly smooth pattern of axiomatic progress), one could see that Ariadne's thread had a robust reddish tinge, and that potential citizens had not all deconstructed themselves into Xhosa, Zulu, Cape Coloured or 'Eurocentric'; had in other words resisted the sectarian lesson that the masters of apartheid tried to teach them. Elsewhere, though, it seemed all at once as if competitive solipsism was the signifier of the 'radical'; a stress on the salience not even of the individual, but of the trait, and from that atomization into the lump of the category. Surely one thing to be learned from the lapsed totalitarian system was the unwholesome relationship between the cult of the masses and the adoration of the supreme personality. Yet introspective voyaging seemed to coexist with dull group-think wherever one peered about among the formerly 'committed'. Traditionally then, or tediously as some will think, I saw no reason to discard the Orwellian standard in considering modern literature. While a sort of etiolation, tricked out as playfulness, had its way among the non-judgemental, much good work was still done by those who weighed words as if they meant what they said. Some authors, indeed, stood by their works as if they had composed them in solitude and out of conviction. Of these, an encouraging number spoke for the ironic against the literal mind; for the generously interpreted interest of all against the renewal of what Orwell termed the 'smelly little orthodoxies'--tribe and Faith, monotheist and polytheist, being most conspicuous among these new/old disfigurements. In the course of making a film about the decaffeinated hedonism of modern Los Angeles, I visited the house where Thomas Mann, in another time of torment, wrote . My German friends were filling the streets of Munich and Berlin to combat the recrudescence of the same old shit as I read: The path to this concept of enlightenment is not to be found in the pursuit of self-pity, or of self-love. Of course to be merely a political animal is to miss Mann's point; while, as ever, to be an apolitical animal is to leave fellow-citizens at the mercy of Ideolo'. For the sake of argument, then, one must never let a euphemism or a false consolation pass uncontested. The truth seldom lies, but when it does lie it lies somewhere in between. apoliticism argument atheism berlin bought-priesthood cape-coloureds cold-war communism conviction critical-thinking enlightenment euphemism eurocentricism faith film george-hw-bush george-orwell german-people germany groupthink hedonism humanism individualism irony journalism left-wing-politics lies literary-criticism literature los-angeles margaret-thatcher monotheism munich orthodoxy personality-politics politics polytheism populism postmodernism potus progress radical-politics religion right-wing-politics ronald-reagan russia science sectarianism self-love self-pity socialism solipsism south-africa soviet-union thomas-mann totalitarianism tribalism truth united-states xhosa-people zulu-people Christopher Hitchens
8336e29 If you examine your motive for doing anything, you'll soon discover that your reason is that you believe it will make you happy. balance happiness holistic-health inspire medications motivate passages-malibu passages-ventura self-care self-love substance-abuse therapy Chris Prentiss
90af93e I smiled, sipped deliciously at my drink, and made a new rule for myself: if life hands you a compliment, take it. self-awareness self-esteem self-love James Patterson
096ea1b I think the truth is that finding ourselves brings more excitement and well-being than anything romance has to offer, and somewhere we know that. communion feminism literature self-love bell hooks
a2bd562 Before and after the funeral I never ceased to cry and be miserable, but it makes me ashamed when I think back on that sadness of mine, seeing that always in it was an element of self-love - now a desire to show that I prayed more than any one else, now concern about the impression I was producing on others, now an aimless curiosity which caused me to observe Mimi's cap or the faces of those around me. I despised myself for not experiencing sorrow to the exclusion of everything else, and I tried to conceal all other feelings: this made my grief insincere and unnatural. Moreover, I felt a kind of enjoyment in knowing that I was unhappy and I tried to stimulate my sense of unhappiness, and this interest in myself did more than anything else to stifle real sorrow in me. childhood death funeral grief self-love sorrow tolstoy unhappiness youth Leo Tolstoy
20c5737 I don't see myself very clearly. Then look at the people who love you...Look into their eyes and see what they're seeing; that's all you need to know yourself. self-esteem self-love Armistead Maupin
dd8f664 And she told you something about yourself you really ought to know: that you're beautiful, and worth loving. self-love Tamora Pierce
962cbc4 Above all, avoid lying, especially lying to yourself. Keep watching out for your lies, watch for them every hour, every minute. Also avoid disgust, both for others and yourself: whatever strikes you as disgusting within yourself is cleansed by the mere fact that you notice it. Avoid fear, too, although fear is really only a consequence of lies. Never be afraid of your petty selfishness when you try to achieve love and don't be too alarmed if you act badly on occasion. disgust fear lies love lying self-love selfishness Fyodor Dostoyevsky
6f9e074 I choose to let positive attitudes lighten my being today. incest-healing inner-child-healing new-perception painful-past positve-attitude self-love soul-journey Maureen Brady
cd6e771 The stars are in your favor, darling, you can't be horrible. Nope, they won't let you. self-love stars Suki Kim
187a648 "At first, I was scared to be alone. No routines. No rules. Just me. But I think..." Taylor wiped a tear away. "I think I was always in the jungle. Before. It was always there. I think I had to come out here to find the answer." "And what did you find?" "I love myself. They make it so hard for us to love ourselves." Taylor stared off into the dark. Her face gleamed with tears. Snot ran over her lips. "The judges won't like that answer." "Nobody's judging you." Taylor choked on a sob. "Always," she whispered." self-love teen-girls Libba Bray
725f77b Never, ever let anyone tell you that who you are is wrong. It's okay to be gay. Or straight. Or bisexual. It's also okay to be asexual, demisexual, pansexual, or aromantic. You do you, and if anyone gives you grief for that, remember one thing: You are exactly the way you're supposed to be. self-love T.J. Klune
461acad I saw the apartment almost as a sanatorium, a hospice clinic for my own recovery. I painted the walls in the warmest colors I could find and bought myself flowers every week, as if I were visiting myself in the hospital. home self-love Elizabeth Gilbert
3d76d0d Only me. It had always only been me. I'd just needed to believe in her. In me. paranatural paranormal self-esteem self-love supernatural Meg Cabot
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